Thursday, September 5, 2013

A Great Teacher to take you forward

On scanning through all the years that I spend ‘learning’ in school, I remember very few of my teachers. During those days, I wondered about the magic that these few but favorite teachers of mine possessed. Today, as an educator myself, I realize, it was their passion towards teaching and learning, that attracted many students like myself to their treasure cove of knowledge.

Being a ‘teacher’ was not an idea that I had in mind during my school days.  During one of the best phases of my life, those four years in engineering college, I learnt a lot more about myself and things outside the ‘syllabi’. As far as teaching in college was concerned, I learnt more about ‘how not to teach’ more than anything else. After the first few months in college, we ‘learnt’ that nobody teaches you in college. Whether you are here to learn or not, it’s your business. I guess that’s the story in most colleges in India.

Though family commitments slowly led me into the field of teaching, it was a moment of discovery for me when I realized that this was where my passion lied (or laid!) (Wonder what would my English Maám say to this ''laid/lied" confusion!) Maybe it had to do with the wonderful places that I started my teaching career with. I had the opportunity to learn, explore, and experiment. The meaning of a ‘teacher’ was slowly shaping up in my mind. As a school teacher, I realized the power that was bestowed on me in shaping young lives.

During one of our conversations recently, my mother mentioned about raising our children to be good and productive citizens of this world. As a mother of two and a teacher of many, I was holding the ‘magic wand’ to do exactly that.

I have seen how a teacher can mean the world to a young mind. I have seen how teachers can bring out the best in you without you even knowing that you could do it. I have seen how a teacher’s smile can bring heaven to a child. I have seen how quickly an attitude/behavior of a teacher is absorbed by the child just as fast as the sponge that takes in water.

The other day when my son asked me the meaning of ‘encouragement’ , I tried to explain it to him with different examples. All the while, he was listening and fiddling with his toy car at the same time. When I was done, I asked him if he could make a sentence with the word, he immediately smiled and said, “Nirmala Miss is an awesome teacher because she gives us lot of encouragement to do things like speak on the stage.” Now my son, who is currently in Grade 4, was talking about his Grade 3 teacher. Nirmala Maám, I know you have made a difference in his life. You are indeed a superb teacher. Masha Allah.

Though my interaction with teachers in India is limited, a different picture emerges. I realize that teachers, who are passionate enough to motivate their children to achieve their dreams, are hard to find. Here teachers are teachers for the sake of being teachers. Sadly, I don’t see passion. I don’t see their love for learning or even teaching. Basically, I see them ‘doing their job’ or shall I say, ‘working’.

The Indian education system has always faced criticism for confining the learning process to the limits of a book. The child is expected to read lessons, learn words, mug up answers, and ultimately vomit them onto a test paper. After going through this routine learning for around 12-14 years, the child is expected to perform well in entrance examinations that test your knowledge outside the syllabus. The pressure on the teachers to complete the ‘syllabus’ despite all the missed school days (due to hartals, rain holidays and what not) is something that I would rather not discuss here.

The questions that creep up as I write this post:

- What is it that can be changed here?
- Is a change ever possible or will we have to always see our children go through this unfair rat race?
- Do the teacher eligibility tests that are conducted by most states in India actually extract the best ‘teacher’ resources?

My intention was to write a post on Teachers’ Day but somehow my route was altered. This is my area of passion which I will continue to explore in my forthcoming blogs. Insha Allah.

Ending with a good reminder for all teachers:
The mediocre teacher tells.
The good teacher explains.
The superior teacher demonstrates.
The great teacher inspires. (William Arthur Ward)

As our children move forward in this journey of life, may they meet such ‘great’ teachers who will inspire them to bring Salaam to this world. As teachers and mothers, may we also be inspired to be great in being instrumental in raising our children to be great future citizens. 

Finally, a big Thank you to all the 'great' teachers (my family, my friends, my seniors, my students and everyone) from all walks of life, who have guided me with their 'Light' in my journey so far and pray that they continue to do so in our days ahead. 



Monday, September 2, 2013

Count your Blessings

As I was reading an FB post on 'Rizq' (the Provisions of the AlMighty), I was reminded of the time that I sat to thank Allah for all the things that He has Blessed me with. It was the time when I got the opportunity to perform Umrah. While facing Masjid Al Haram, as I started to say AlHamdulillah for the things that I could think of, it dawned on me that the list that I was making was never going to end. Masha Allah. That was in 2007.

Six years later, today, I am at a point where I find so many things that have happened and are happening lately in my life, not to my liking. As my heart and mind started riding a ‘Why me?’ questioning mode, this FB post on 'Rizq' reminded me about the ‘Thank you’ list that I drew up six years back. Hence, I have decided to count my blessings yet again to remind me that life hasn’t come to a halt (as I imagine it to be). It would be unfair to say a mere ‘Thanks’ for all the things that He has Blessed me with. It is with gratitude that I bow down to the Almighty for all the Rizq that He has provided me with in the form of health, love, family, friendship, knowledge, and lots more.

On seeing the unimaginable atrocities against the innocent people of Syria, especially young children, I did not need too much time to thank the Almighty for the safe environment that we live in. On seeing a cousin’s wife struggle in handling her five young boys (Masha Allah), the youngest two of them being three month old twins, I decided to overlook my tiredness in handling my baby, especially with the help and support of my son and husband.

Every time that I have been brought down by my problems; the Almighty has His Amazing way of bringing me up by showing what others are facing. And ultimately, my problems are as light as a feather can be. Alhamdulillah. Seriously! When you count your blessings, your life seems perfect with all its imperfections.

Praying that you all seek Peace in the Blessings that He has bestowed you with. 

Saturday, August 31, 2013

Bismillah...

In the Name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.

Well, after a lot of thought and pondering, I have decided to officially enter the world of blogging.Yap..I am quite late to enter this dimension of the internet but as the saying goes, "Better Late than Never".

For a great start, Insha Allah, let me begin my journey with one of my favourite verse from the Holy Quran. This Ayah is from Surah An Noor (24), verse no:35. Here goes the translation.

Allah is the Light of the heavens and the earth. 
The parable of His Light is a niche wherein is a lamp — the lamp is in a glass, 
the glass as it were a glittering star — lit from a blessed olive tree, neither eastern nor western, 
whose oil almost lights up, though fire should not touch it. 
Light upon light. 
Allah guides to His Light whomever He wishes. 
Allah draws parables for mankind, 
and Allah has knowledge of all things.

May the Lord guide us to His Light. (Aameen) I have always come back to this Ayah a numerous times, solely to admire the way 'Light'has been portrayed.

As I take my baby steps in this large world of blogging, I would like to use this forum to share our dreams and passions that we nurture. To decipher the daily real(or reel) life drama that we are part of. To view things that you and I see, through a different perspective. To unscramble the message of Peace that the Almighty sends across in everything that happens around us and others. Basically, I am in pursuit of the 'Light'.

So, with the intention of unravelling the gift of Salaam that happens to be hidden in every nook and corner of this wide world, I begin.